Yearbook Theme – Seeking
Growth Today – Doing the Things We Love
When we came up with that
theme, I thought everyone, including me, would talk about their hobbies. So, I thought, do I want to talk about fly
fishing?—no, not really. Golf, no, not
really. Another thing I like to do is
read, and right now I am reading Apples
are from Kazakhstan. (Apples, we
just love ‘em?) It’s true, botanists
have traced back the beginning of the apple tree to this Central Asian
country. Wild apple trees grow in some
regions, and the fruit covers the ground in the fall. They have an apple in KZ called the Aport
which grows as big as a baby’s head and is sweet and delicious. Tulips
are also from KZ and trousers. But KZ
is a land that no one knows much about.
But I’m not really going to do a book report. I am going to tell you WHY I am reading this
obscure book about this obscure country.
You know how wonderful it is
to HELP your children, grandchildren and nieces and nephews grow? And
then all of a sudden, some of them are doing things you never even dreamed of,
and all of a sudden, they are helping YOU grow. My middle son Levi—the quiet, artistic, introverted,
son, and his wife April—have opened my eyes, widened my horizons, and made me
seek growth.
About five years ago, when
most of us in this country were still reeling from 911 and harboring some real
fears of Islamic people, April took at
job in the United Arab Emirates ,
in Abu Dhabi ,
at a charter school where her uncle was the dean. It was an all boys school, and she mostly
worked with the teachers telling them about how schools in our country teach
Math. The next year they moved to Dubai . There Levi worked for a magazine as a graphic
designer. The UAE is pretty bilingual,
so they got along ok speaking only English. This is what April wrote to me about the
Middle Eastern people:
The people I met were
so incredibly nice and curious about America ; I never felt any hostility
from anyone (OK, maybe a bit during Ramadan on the road - but who wouldn't be
cranky when they've worked a full day on an empty stomach!). The teachers I
worked with were willing to let me into their classrooms, which is a feat for
teachers around the world to let someone in their space. They spoke to me with respect (which of
course I returned). They wanted to teach me about their culture and their language.
Many of them commented how awful the Taliban is and how they are not liked by
most of the Islamic community. From
these stories and interactions I knew that I wanted to spread the word to
Americans about how much we stereotype Muslims.
So, they came back home and
bought a house and a dog, and April got a job at GOAL Academy
on-line school. Levi went back to his graphic design job here. But then they got restless to do it again, so
April starting looking for another international teaching job. In July Levi called to tell me they would be
moving to Kazakhstan
in three weeks. Where? I didn’t even know where Kazakhstan WAS. It’s there, point down, 12 hours ahead [as she stands in the USA ]. And here they were going all by themselves,
not knowing anyone, not knowing the language. Getting their Visas took longer than
expected, but finally they got there, about 3 weeks ago, with their little pug
dog. April’s job is at a Gifted and Talented
high school, and she will be teaching Math in English. Almost no one in KZ speaks English, most
speak Russian, although many speak Kazakh, but they are teaching their
brightest students in all three languages.
The government sends 3,500 students abroad to university on a full scholarship
plus living expenses on the condition they will come back to work for only
three years.
KZ is the 9th
largest country in the world. Texas can fit in it 5 times, and it’s larger than all of Western Europe . It
is located West of China ,
South of Russia , and
bordered on the west side by the Caspian Sea . Turkmenistan ,
Uzbekistan and Kyrgyzstan
border it to the South. It is
approximately the same latitude as the Northern United States . Levi & April are in Shymkent, a city
about the same climate and size as Denver .
There are only a few cities in KZ. It is a Republic government. President Nazarbayev was elected as the first
President when the country became independent from the Soviet
Union and he has been in office over 20 years. The Kazakh people seem to like him and they
keep reelecting him. Its historic
culture is that of nomads living in yurts.
Under Russian rule, the people were forced to settle and farm. Then the Soviets in the 1900s ruled the
country and built large communist-styled bloc apartment buildings and
factories. Levi & April live in one
of those old style apartment buildings.
It’s big and comfortable, and they have great, fast internet service,
but no dishwasher, no clothes dryer, and the refrigerator is in one of the
bedrooms.
The present Capital city Astana
is 1,000 miles away with nothing but steppe in between. Astana is a brand new, very modern city built
in the middle of the country just in the last twenty years, since the fall of
the Soviet Union in 1991. Many different
nationalities live in KZ now, most of whom were forced there by the Soviet
regime or came as refugees from wars in their countries. Different cultures get along and accept one
another, having past hardships in common. About
half of the people are Muslim and half are Russian Orthodox, but nearly
everyone is moderate, not devout or extreme in their religious traditions. They wear western clothing. And they love music and love to dance. The students at April’s school flash mob and
line dance during their breaks.
Levi tells me it is not just
for the adventure that they have chosen to experience other cultures. They wanted to challenge themselves by getting
out of their comfort zones. They wanted
to see people from a different angle. It
has made them appreciate what we have in the U.S. , and not take it for
granted. And it has made them relate to
people who don’t speak our language, to experience being on the other side of
the language barrier, how to communicate with few words. My kids are aware that they are representing
Americans, and they try to be their best and break the stereotypes many people
have of Americans. I am so proud of them
because I think it takes courage to do this just as regular people, not as part
of an organization with an agenda, and not with a tour guide. I can’t imagine doing it myself. They are meeting real folks, not just service
employees in tourist destinations.
The most surprising thing my
son told me is this: Being in a completely new place makes you
focus on the details, the things you take for granted at home. That slows down time, and makes you live
longer. Well, we can’t all travel to the other
side of the world, but we can all get out of our comfort zones, and experience
something new. Dosvedania!